{"id":732,"date":"2024-12-04T10:10:34","date_gmt":"2024-12-04T10:10:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/danisace.com\/?p=732"},"modified":"2024-12-04T10:10:35","modified_gmt":"2024-12-04T10:10:35","slug":"solo-stance","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/danisace.com\/?p=732","title":{"rendered":"Solo stance"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>I am not sure whether you have ever known a solo stance<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What it feels like day in and day out to be within your own presence<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Just a question? Do you like yourself when you sit here?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Or are you wishing that someone or anyone would just appear?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Solitude, isolation or loneliness, which one occupies you?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Actually, it does not matter they are all quite the handful to consume.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Again, do you like yourself when you sit here, if not why?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What did you do so wrong that isolates you and you cry?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Is it circumstantial? 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Or is it just bad luck?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Do you feel hopeless, unloved scared and do you feel stuck?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Like are you chained to your past, or anxious of your future,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Help me to understand why, let me teach you to nurture,&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You have to be kind, be peaceful and content,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You have to remind yourself daily that you are meant<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To be here, I know I am too, see this internal coaching took me a while<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I never ever understood why I was an unloved child<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But I do now, I get why I have been raised in solitude,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Why depression is my daily bread, PTSD has been my food,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So I can help you, so I can again come and sit in the dark blue,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I can guide around this solitude, and I will I promise find you,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Not like a stalker, or someone you can not get rid off,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>More a shoulder for you soldier, my dark walk will never stop,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Not until I find you anyway, I can find you before it gets too dark,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But I hope you know that deoression and its combos are all a work of art;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Its beautiful you know &#8211; to be blue and in isolation,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I want to hear what sent you there though, I can listen with patience<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I know what and how it feels, how lonely here can actually be on the mind,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This is another reason we should always be kind,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Because you never know who cries alone,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Who has no one but themselves in their home,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I guess that\u2019s why I am here to remind you,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That I am okay, at peace and alone with myself too<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I am not sure whether you have ever known a solo stance What it feels like day in and day out to be within your own presence Just a question? 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