Hey and hope everyone is okay, as always if you are struggling reach out to someone;
I am pondering over a new blog and i thought this would be of relevance to help open new perspectives on relationships, being a monogamous girl i am so strong with love vibrations, understanding these energies within love relations or friend relations is so important 🙂
My views are derived from some facts but are mostly from my own learnt or experienced perspective, my own views do not help everyone but may benefit some on a new understanding, once i understand what i am looking at, i then ensure my information is not false and justify all of my information via online sources,
Anyway,
Relationships are created so that two individuals can join together on an equal foundation for growth, love, stability, strength, care, nurturing, and so much more, little do we know that within this relationship there must be a balance of masculine and feminine energy in order for the relationship to be successful;
You must also be within stable grounds to enter within a relationship, understanding your previous triggers to avoid them enlightening within your current relationship,
What are masculine energies – Masculine energy is often associated with qualities such as assertiveness, rationality, and action. Examples of masculine energy may include a man being a strong leader, a man using logic to solve a problem, or a man taking charge in a crisis situation. (Google)
What are feminine energies – Feminine energy is the energy of creation, life and love. It’s also associated with compassion and peace; these are some qualities that many people associate with women in our society today (and historically). (Google)
Many people do not know that to enter into a relationship there needs to be a greater understanding and acceptance of the other person and their intentions within each of the energies, there must be an equal balance within shared energies in order for the relationship to become stable. Generally the male is the masculine energy, the female the feminine, but these intertwine. As both male and female offer strength and security and both male and female offer love and nurturing. It is seen that the roles swap when enduring matters together, the female becoming the stability, the male becoming the nurturing;
The masculine energy brings the strength and stability to the relationship, the feminine brings the love and care to the relationship, both must be within acceptance of the other, ,when one side of the relationship has to hold both energies this is when the energies become insecure and unbalanced,
Unbalanced relations are served with insecurities, narcissism, jealousy, gaslighting, trust issues, isolation, vulnerability, belittling, disagreements, miscommunications and so many more, when you experience this within a relationship there is an imbalance within the masculine and feminine energy.
An imbalance will either be,
A lack of masculine energy – which will show signs of lack of stability or confusion within the relationship, these cause insecurities from the other party and a lack of feeling ‘safe’ within the relationship.
A lack of feminine energy – which will be a reduction in love and or care, lack of interest or no motivation, these cause insecurities from the other party and a lack of feeling ‘safe’ within the relationship.
A reduction in either energies will cause a lack of feeling ‘safe’ within a relationship;
Some people may enter relationships to serve their ego as opposed to nurturing the relationship and its future outlooks,serving your ego can be seen as entering the relationship with no intentions of understanding or accepting the other person for who they are for them and more so what they would serve for you, how they would serve for you or how they appear next to you;
These ego relationships come with gaslighting, narcissism, invalidating the others feelings, betrayal, miscommunications, disagreements, accusations, this is because the energy is not within a match with a lack of self-awareness on their behaviors. Treating another person within these grounds is a form of abuse, (if you are within an abusive relation, please seek advice and help if you need, my emails are open too we offer DV/MA support)
I think many relationships that are within a good balance grow to become a well nurtured and served relationship, maybe subconsciously each of these parties already understand their role within the relationship;
I do believe that it is very important when in any relation or bonding session that each person must understand their role, maybe it has been years and your roles have been reduced or the love has been defusing, if this is the case understand yours and your partner’s role within the relation and whether it fits with your needs and not just theirs or vise versa. If you are seeking departure from the relationship do this safely and within monogamous grounds.
It is also understood that when an individual is within a relationship that is not served with peace and love that it may distress their nervous system and cause their mental health to deteriorate more frighteningly some may endure suicidal thoughts as a means of escaping said distress, please if it ever becomes to much for you to endure reach out to www.suicideapuk.co.uk – volunteers online everyday <3
Peace & Love
Thanks for reading