I love writing, blogging, creating, Art in any form and I like sharing my learnt thoughts and regulated past feelings with others in many different expressive ways, I have done this for as long as I can remember, this is a huge part of my personality, as is lower self-esteem, depressive traits and neuro-divergencies.
The whole of my current being has been developed from my own intuition, from past traumas and from being guided without knowing I have been guided, my gut feeling / higher- self or my guardian angels have always allowed me to be in the ‘know’ if you will, I have just always known and understood what to do next. I have one or several guardian angels who have protected me since I was a child, I saw my grandad or someone who looked of his figure when I was 6 years old, (he passed when I was 1) which has somewhat led me onto being a spiritual individual, I am happiest up a mountain and I am one of earth’s daughters, I look after the earth where I am able and push for a more positive future. Being earths daughter means I feel I have been placed here to serve others. I have spent most of my life alone and within solitude and I have no problem with this, it means I can recover and still give out and I am happy with who I am, it took a lot of work and understanding of myself to get where I am today, I use what I have learnt and understood to teach you.
But this is my individuality and who I am, we are here to help you understand you.
If you haven’t already please complete the 16-part personality test on my Introspection blog link here, you just have to scroll down find the next link (goose chase) – this has been outsourced so will take you to a third party website and takes around ten minutes to complete, by doing this you can understand or align yourself within a personality group 🙂
I am a Mediator – INFP this fits well with me – what is yours and does it fit well with you? If you feel it does not, drop me a message and we will try and re-align the parts up <3
So, we each have a different personality, we each have different morals, we each have different ways of thinking, we all have different problem solving techniques, we also all look different and sound different. We are our own identities and no one person has the same identity as you, unless there has been a clone made or you of an identical twin then there are some things that are the same but still even these can be identified individually.
The definition of individuality is an aggregate of qualities and characteristics that distinguish one person or thing from others;
Individuals make different choices to distinguish their identity, such as hair colour, food preferences, shoe styles, dress sense, drink choice and so much more. Some individuals may also have distinguishing features. Individual difference are also strongly apparent within course choice / work choices that are chosen. It goes so FAR!! But the messages still stay the same, you are you, and you are who you are based on the choices you make, the nurture you received and the nature you perceive. There are a lot of circumstantial situation that can determine or have a detrimental effect on individuality such as temporary or long term mental / physical health conditions as these will in a sense create a new outlook for you to process amongst yourself. But with every new opportunity or mishap, we sponge it up into our processes and we begin to regulate them – love, loss and guilt all have the ability to change personality traits for the better or for the worse.
We can also experience Identity merge, so if I was to merge into SAPUK so that I became SAPUK as appose to myself and SAPUK, I would lose all sense of my personality / identity and become a part of this instead. When people who are close with me think of me, I would like to think they remember me for writing and expressions as appose to SAPUK and prevention services, although it is a huge part of my life I do not want it to become all of my identity.
We can also merge with the people that are closest to us finding shared mannerisms, this generally happens after several months or even years with this person. If you are finding shared mannerisms almost instantaneously their may be a personality disorder – this is where there is either a split amongst personalities or someone mirrors another persons personality in a bid to create their own, please seek advice from your doctor or another professional if you are experiencing something of this nature. It is okay to be influenced from another person but we can not copy or replicate another persons inundate traits and make them our own.
Yk, I used to get mocked for my ability of writing ‘oh just write down’ they would snigger amongst themselves, but it helped me more than anyone else could, and my abilities to express passionately has helped a lot of others too. I can look where I am today and know I never gave up on my passions because they never gave up on me. I could of easily put the pen down when others thought ill of me, but I chose not too.
And you know also people judge others so much, people assume of others based on minimal information and people turn their head away when support could potentially be given, if you feel like you are within a position where you may be being judged, assumed off or lacking support you need to just walk on by with the courageous strength and thought process that you are whole heartily are enough, these just are not your people, you will find yours, I found mine and I flourished 🙂 <3
And here is why you should always ignore the evil eye because that is on their path and it is not on yours, you do not cast judgement and you do not assume of others so… let them;
Being individual means to be yourself, with your flaws and your quirks, with your negative and your positive, with your highs and your lows, it is about you. Like the yin-yang holds two parts we also do, individualism is about respecting all of these parts and flourishing through life with these in a balance with one another, you can not have the ups without the downs and be patient.
There are many social factors that could have a detrimental effect on your mental health some of these are –
💙 When you are a lower income household, you may always feel like you are less off
💛 When you are a single parent for so long, you may always feel like you are less off
🧡 When you don’t get invited, you may always feel like you are less off
🩷 Then there is the social media side, if people don’t like your posts, you may feel like you are lower affluence
🩶 When people ignore your posts and scroll on by, you may feel like you are lower affluence
🤎 If you aren’t up to date with the latest trends you may feel like you are behind
🤎🩶 🩷🧡 💛💙 But the truth is you are not any of these things, you are individually you it just looks different on each individual person 💙💛🧡 🩷🩶 🤎
And then there is another side to it, the energy we give out can either make us or break us, if we are utilising our energy wondering what other people are thinking about you, then that is energy that could of gone somewhere more positive, really, why care about what others think about you ? It is wasted energy 😊, why let them decide and cast your judgement when they are not and more than likely will never be walking in your shoes…
The truth is, when you let go of these shackles from other people, you will grow into your own self confidence and be the person you were meant to be this whole time. Your self-esteem will also rise and you will be YOU.